We are a white married couple that is living with an open marriage, as my wife is into black men that are very well hung, I am the husband and I am totally OK with her having a lover as I get to witness and hear them, her lover has taken her to a tattoo parlor, and now she has a queen of spade tattoo .Wife likes on occasion to play with other women as this is one of her fantasies, as we have talk about her having going on vacation with her lover and spend a few months in a warm weather climate. Wife and I .